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Short-term pleasure leads to long-term suffering. On month five of my trip around the world, my first new country is finally within reach.

Short-term pleasure leads to long-term suffering. On month five of my trip around the world, my first new country is finally within reach.

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Last day in Kota Kinabalu, running around to exchange Brunei dollars. I could only convert $50 — it made me laugh, but my first new country and my first overland border crossing are waiting. That night I resisted BR ice cream and put 'short-term pleasure is long-term suffering' into practice.

Today I woke up just after noon. I still felt like I hadn’t slept enough. Even though I’d slept eight hours, I wondered why I still felt this way.

Exchanging into Brunei dollars

I woke up and decided to work today. Before that, since the day after tomorrow would be the day I go to Brunei, I thought I’d exchange Malaysian ringgit for Brunei dollars and walked to an exchange. When I asked there, they said they only had Singapore dollars and were out of Brunei dollars.

So I decided to think it over and had lunch at a nearby restaurant. I had steamed chicken and rice again today. Consistently delicious.

It was tasty, but I couldn’t say it was good for my body. They used plenty of sweet sauce—definitely delicious, but I don’t think I could eat it all the time.

I walked to another exchange. It was in a shopping mall near the hotel. When I got there there were a few customers, and I asked them to change my money into Brunei dollars.

They said they did have Brunei dollars. I handed over some money—not a 100 ringgit note—and they gave back some bills, saying they didn’t have small notes so only large denominations were possible. I converted 163 MYR into 50 Brunei dollars. The rate didn’t feel bad at all. Still, I could only change into 50 dollars, which made me a little sad (lol). But since I’m staying two days, I wondered if I’d even use that much.

First new country, first overland border crossing

I’ve heard Brunei is a very expensive country, so I’m curious how expensive it will be. I’m really looking forward to it. It’s my first overland border crossing and my first new country. Even though I said I was doing a world trip, about five months have passed and I still haven’t been to a new country. I guess that’s a real problem, right?

Probably because I’m traveling while working, I’m not used to constantly packing every day’s plans, so I tend to stay in cities longer. Other backpackers just take buses, move, arrive in a city, enjoy it, and then go to another city. That’s their lifestyle.

But I have no deadlines and I’m busy with work every day. So I can’t live like that. Also I always need breaks; without them my health quickly goes downhill.

So I’m really excited to be able to go to a "new country" after a long time. I wonder what kind of country it will be. The hotel is booked and paid for, so I’m relieved.

My seat was taken at Starbucks

After exchanging money I decided to go to a nearby Starbucks. There weren’t many seats available, so I put my bag down to reserve a seat before ordering, but while I was in line a group sat down without caring. I got angry, grabbed my bag, and left Starbucks. They ruined my mood so I didn’t want to stay.

There was another Starbucks nearby, so I went there. When I said "Kota" the staff immediately realized I was Japanese and asked, "Which is the best season to travel to Japan?"—we had a short friendly chat.

I probably stayed at that Starbucks for about four hours. There were code problems and cloud issues that stopped me from downloading code, so I worked on resolving those while moving the project forward.

There are as many as four sushi restaurants

For dinner I decided to go for sushi. I thought I’d go to the sushi place I missed yesterday, but it seems there are about four sushi restaurants in the same mall, which surprised me. I compared various menus and finally chose a restaurant on the first floor.

I ordered oyakodon and a spicy salmon roll. The taste was pretty good. The only thing I didn’t like was that the oyakodon had a lot of mushrooms. After that I still wanted to eat more, so I ordered a salmon salad gunkan and an egg gunkan. All were very cheap.

I wonder why I’m so stingy with food even though I actually have money to spare. Is it because of my parents’ influence? Or because I know what rock bottom feels like and want to avoid wasting money? Or because once I’m back in Japan I can eat salmon very cheaply, so I don’t need to have it here? Any of those could be true.

Short-term pleasure leads to long-term suffering

On the way back there was a BR. Seeing the ice cream made me want some for the first time in a while—everything looked delicious. But the voice that popped into my head said, "Short-term pleasure is long-term suffering; short-term suffering is long-term pleasure," so I refrained from eating it. I told myself giving in to sweets would be a bit dangerous.

After that I went to the cafe I’d been to yesterday. I wrote in my diary and resumed work I had left unfinished. That’s how I spent the day.

I actually wanted to go on a tour—I had planned to go to Mount Kinabalu and to a ranch with lots of cows—but it had been raining continuously and I thought it wouldn’t be fun in that weather, so I canceled. But today it didn’t seem to be raining much, and I thought, "Ah, I should have gone." So that was another lesson: "Weather forecasts aren’t always reliable."

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Kota Ishihara

Graduated from the Department of Life Science, Faculty of Science and Engineering, Kindai University. After graduation, he taught himself web production and began working as a freelancer in 2022. He is currently traveling around the world while working as a web engineer, and continues sharing through his blog, YouTube, and social media under the theme: "Live like traveling. Work like being moved. Connect from the heart." Rather than visiting tourist spots, he values "breathing the air of each country and staying as if living there." His dream is to base himself in Europe, build a creative multinational team, and create cross-border projects. He also aims to become a pilot and hold the control yoke himself. Music and fashion are core infrastructure in his life. He is extremely strict about earphones. The person he respects is Taro Okamoto.

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