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 With my first foreign friend, after seven years - Ankara#1

With my first foreign friend, after seven years - Ankara#1

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First day in Ankara. Berkay, whom I met on the subway, paid my bus fare, and I reunited after seven years with my friend Nihat, whom I had spoken to for only five minutes seven years ago.

A red car stopped at the roadside.

When I waved, they waved back. A person I hadn't seen in seven years was standing right in front of me.

From Eskişehir to Ankara, by YHT (high-speed train)

At 8:30 a.m. I checked out of the hostel and walked toward the station.

I really liked Eskişehir. Maybe because it was early in the morning, there were few people around; it was quiet and clear. It felt good just to walk. I felt like I was able to properly say goodbye to one of my favorite towns.

To Ankara by YHT (high-speed train). One and a half hours.

When I sat in a face-to-face seat, I noticed that seat reservations on Turkish trains are separated into 'men's seats' and 'women's seats.' I thought it was out of consideration for Muslims. For some reason I felt a little hesitant to choose a seat next to a woman. It was a strange experience.

On the metro, I met Berkay and the others.

I arrived at Ankara Station. A grand stone-built station. It felt very much like a capital.

When I was about to pass through the gate to take the subway to the hostel, a Turkish couple next to me spoke to me. "Today is a holiday, so the metro and buses are all free," they said. They asked where I was going; when I told them the nearest station to the hostel, they said they were going the same way and suggested we go together.

His name was Berkay. He works as a server security engineer at a bank. His girlfriend is also a security engineer. While waiting for the train, we sat on a bench and talked about many things. Berkay spoke slowly and was calm. When they were together, you could naturally tell that their hearts were in sync.

Even after I got off, they guided me to the bus stop. They waited with me until the bus came, and just before I boarded, I realized that Berkay had paid the bus fare, saying this bus required payment.

Within thirty minutes of arriving in Ankara.

With Berkay and his girlfriend, on the metro.

Seven years later, Nihat's red car.

After taking a short nap, I left the hostel.

The real reason I came to Ankara today was to meet Nihat. We first met in 2019 at a short training program in Russia. While everyone else stuck together with other Japanese people, I really wanted to make friends from abroad, so I went over to talk to him who was nearby. My English at the time was terrible and I could barely understand what he was saying. Still, we took a photo together and exchanged Facebook. It was probably about five minutes.

Seven years passed and we hardly kept in touch. But when I learned he was in Ankara, I changed my plans on short notice to come and see him.

A red car stopped at the roadside. When I waved, they waved back. That moment was special.

I shook his hand and told him, 'You were the first foreign friend I ever had.'

Seven years later, in Nihat's car.

A Turkish breakfast that filled the table.

We drove to a cafe.

Nihat ordered, without even looking at the menu, 'Turkish breakfast, please.' While I couldn't imagine what would come, plates were brought out one after another.

Bread, butter, two kinds of jam. Scrambled eggs and ham. French fries. A mountain of cheese. Condensed milk. Olives. Tomato salad. Chai. There was enough to cover the table. I thought it was like a British afternoon tea.

The table disappeared.

We talked for about an hour. Nihat is a nationalist and seems to love Turkey more with each passing year. He's a history buff and, spreading out a map, taught me about the Ottoman and Byzantine empires. The stories you hear in Armenia and in Turkey are, of course, somewhat different. But I think the interesting thing about travel is being able to hear both side by side.

At the end, Nihat paid by card. While he went to the restroom, I happened to glance at the receipt. 1,980 lira (about 7,000 yen). 3,500 yen per person. While thinking it was too expensive, I was full of gratitude.

A shopping mall and a time filled with Turkish conversations.

From 4:00 p.m., I met up with two of Nihat's friends and we went to a cafe in the shopping mall. Four of us in total.

The two friends were shy and looked away as soon as our eyes met. Amid the flurry of Turkish conversation, I just listened.

When you're in a circle where you don't understand the language, your mind goes into rest mode. It's similar to meditation. You don't think about anything; you just take it in as sound. There's no pressure to speak. That, surprisingly, felt pleasant.

With Nihat, at the mall cafe.

A local eatery and Ankara at night.

After Nihat saw me off, I returned to the hostel and went out for dinner alone.

A nearby local eatery. Chicken rice, bean soup, tomato salad. The uncle there was kind and, when he realized I was Japanese, he spoke to me with great curiosity. The Turkish man sitting next to me said at the end, 'Enjoy your travel.'

I felt like people would come closer if I stayed as I was.

Chicken rice and bean soup.

After eating, I walked alone through downtown Ankara. It was crowded and lively. Nightclubs, live shows, lines of young people. But no one paid any attention to me as a foreigner. I really liked that atmosphere.

Back at the hostel, I opened my notebook.

There was a message Nihat had written for me. It was a day in which seven years were condensed into one.

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Kota Ishihara

Graduated from the Department of Life Science, Faculty of Science and Engineering, Kindai University. After graduation, he taught himself web production and began working as a freelancer in 2022. He is currently traveling around the world while working as a web engineer, and continues sharing through his blog, YouTube, and social media under the theme: "Live like traveling. Work like being moved. Connect from the heart." Rather than visiting tourist spots, he values "breathing the air of each country and staying as if living there." His dream is to base himself in Europe, build a creative multinational team, and create cross-border projects. He also aims to become a pilot and hold the control yoke himself. Music and fashion are core infrastructure in his life. He is extremely strict about earphones. The person he respects is Taro Okamoto.

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